Showing posts with label inspirational. Show all posts
Showing posts with label inspirational. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 29, 2015

Adding Inches To My Pythons - A 2016 Goal

2015 draws to a close. Lots happened this year. I honestly don't remember what all of my resolutions were 360-some days ago. At this point, I'm not sure it matters. The past is just that.

So, what is this year going to bring? A new job. Perhaps a new residence. Maybe even a new truck. That said, here are a few goals I have:


  1. Be an awesome team player
  2. Provide insight others may not see that is worthy of everyone's time
  3. Willingness to learn from everyone's mistakes, including my own
  4. Settle for nothing less than I deserve due to impatience
  5. Accept that what I do get is indeed what was meant for me after plenty of hard work and perseverance
Also, other personal goals include:
  1. Learning the drum basics
  2. Getting involved in veteran homelessness, though I'm not sure how or where I would be best suited to help
  3. Having more get-togethers with those I hold near and dear with no shortage of laughter, love, and appreciation

Can I be honest? Daily routine has taken its toll on me. I need a change. Who is with me? I came to this realization when I was doing some work for a client of mine and came across two quotes searching for the right inspiration for their project:

You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough


In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take


So what does that mean? It means that if I'm not satisfied with my life as it is, it is no one else's responsibility other than my own to make it that one life to live. This is something that is a HUGE misnomer in our society. We are quick to point a finger at someone else for our own discomfort or lack of happiness. The fact is, if I'M not happy, I must go out and change MY situation. Not my neighbor, or my pops, or my high school buddy.

We all have something in our lives that we aren't pleased with. Perhaps a lack of education to get a dream job. Maybe it's taking the first step to getting a new job and getting out of a toxic company, which seems to be tougher than it should. It could even be confronting someone to find a way to improve communication, or even coming to terms with ones-self that you treat others disrespectfully and decide to seek professional help to improve your relationships. If it all seems overwhelming, find someone you can trust who will be honest with you, even if it is an unbiased 3rd party, and talk things through. 

Regardless of what it is, be thankful that it is 2016... you have 366 days to work it through. I know I'm looking forward to the extra day to add inches to my Pythons. 

In all seriousness though, pick a problem, figure out how to solve it, make the change, and repeat. Don't regret those chances you thought may have been initially too risky to take. Perhaps it is exactly what you need. Don't be afraid to fail. Don't think you have to fix everything all at once either. Make milestones of your most important items, set dates, and manage your progress. Forward movement, no matter how small, is better than sitting on your duff.

I truly wish you a happy and healthy 2016. Thanks for reading. All 3 of you =)

Friday, November 13, 2015

Casting Pearls


"Do not give what is holy to the dogs; nor cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces."

Someone who I trust very much said this to me yesterday. It struck a chord. Whether you are a Christian or not, the quote from Matthew should resonate.

We all have something special to share with one another. Something more precious than material things. Ourselves. Our hearts. Our souls. Our passions. Our 'pearls'. We want to share them. Make life better for those around us, bring success to our jobs, and feel as though things today are better than they were yesterday because of the role we play daily in the moments of the world.

Unfortunately, not everyone is receptive to receive these pearls.


Remember though, they are ours to share with the world. Stop sharing what you have with those who would choose to devalue your offerings. Break the cycle. Walk away and find someone who finds them of value. 

To advance this point a step further: Just because one does not find value in something you do or did does not mean you lack worth. Nor does it matter if that number is 5, 15, or 55. Never confuse this fact. Your worth is a not a value that can be given a number from someone else. It's not based on Likes, Shares, or even attaboys. It is not something that I can give to you or tell you how to find. It must be found on your own when you are ready to find it. 

When you can be receptive to yourself

Moral of the story is that you must realize how important your pearls are before you cast them at your own hooves due to you not holding yourself with the high esteem that you should. While gifts, even if they are dirty, are wonderful, they look a whole lot better if you decide not to trample all over them yourself. Share yourself with those who value you. Move beyond the rest that don't. Never leave yourself behind.

Rook out.

Thursday, October 1, 2015

Let's Catch Up

Not since fricken August have I been here. Holy nutty! How time flies. It seems like I've been so busy, and I have. I have been working for a company on a contract basis that is based in Exeter rolling out a project management and accounting software combo, Workamajig. I have also been working on a lot of freelance stuff for businesses, both website and print graphics. It has been nothing short of bat-s crazy as of late! I am very appreciative though. It is nice to see the bank account actually go up for a change, haha. And the people I have been working with have been truly amazing making me feel a part of a team when as a contractor you normally are just an individual.

I wish I had some sort of other exciting news.

Oh, well, I created a new cover for author friend, Rick Jones


And tomorrow I get to try my hand at hard cider. While I have made plenty of beer in the last few years, this will be my first fruit-fermented beverage. 2 plain with 2 separate yeast types, and a third with hops.

Don't forget that tomorrow is the first day of your life all over again. If you are lucky enough to wake up, you can make a difference by: being a hero, surprising yourself, and making others smile. Don't take life for granted. Appreciate your privileges. Give your best.

Peace out.

Thursday, July 23, 2015

Today Is A Good Day

I have to agree with Ice Cube, today is a good day: Thanked God. No barking dog... But we did differ a bit. I had some bacon.


So, what's good about it? I've felt very accomplished today. Partnering up with a friend doing some graphics for her business, meeting up with some old coworkers for lunch, then teaching a class of adults about LinkedIn and how beneficial it can be for you and your career search. The highlight of it all: I was told that I should be a motivational speaker and that I truly helped at least a few of them. More so, someone wants to hire me to show them how to use LinkedIn and other 'current tools' like Google Drive, Calendar, and the like.

I believe that we are not living life as we should. We are a whole lot of talk and so often we lack action. Often people say, 'what are MY needs? Me, ME. ME!' but miss out on the fact that if everyone focused on everyone else's needs, how much more could be accomplished! Beyond that, imagine the speed at which YOUR needs could get fulfilled if everyone else cared as much about you as you cared about others. Are 10 hands working toward 1 goal not better than 1 focusing on themselves?

That said, I throw down the gauntlet:

Do you want to see the homeless taken care of? Go to your local shelter and donate your time to help feed them, or be a listening ear (I'm sure the Nashua Soup Kitchen and Shelter would be happy to see you).

Do you want to see people get jobs? Go to your local library and offer your time to teach classes on how to find a job, use the internet, or promote job fairs.

Think the news is a bunch of garbage? Start getting your own facts and create a blog, podcast, or vlog.

I could go on, but I think you get the point. If there is only one thing that you take away tonight, it is that YOU really can make a difference if that is what you want. I heard it. I felt it. I saw it. Life has taught me some tough lessons the past few years, and a good one being that I needed to stop playing the victim. More often than not, life isn't that fricken bad. Quit the complaining and start serving up actionable solutions that YOU take the lead on, or get them to people who can. Stop the noise that does not make things clearer, nor solves any problem.

Believe me when I say to you that you want to take on this challenge. You might actually start feeling good about this world when you see all the good your heart can provide to those around you. Don't get discouraged. Stay the course. Be a great leader that people want to follow.

Let your smile, and attitude, change the world.

Peace out.

Monday, July 13, 2015

My New Favorite Four-Letter Word

I have a little rant. Bear with me. While this is geared towards Christians, you do not have to be to follow along.

Growing up, I was raised Catholic. It was a great little church in a quaint town in NH, and I was a part of many pieces of the place. I was an altar server from basically the day after my First Communion, up until my family moved away when I was 20. I helped put on spaghetti dinners to raise money for non-profits. I made treats to be eaten at the weekly coffee hour in the basement. I was treated with respect and love. Unconditionally.

I then grew up. I had choices to make, but I never forgot the priest that I had spent so many years with. He was a gentle giant and one of the most amazing people I had ever known. He was as much an influence in my life as my parents were for me to grow up to be a good man who loved all, because that is how Christ told us to live.

Sounds like a pretty decent story so far. Well, here it comes:


Don't cast stones.

We have not been commanded to be judge and jury when it comes to sin. We are here to support people in their greatest time of need, and love them the best way we know how while working through our own sin through introspective reflection to make the world a better place one you at a time.

We all sin. We all fall short. I know I do, and probably every few minutes at that. We must end the belief, though, that any one person reading this blog (or not) is going to Heaven, or is leading a better life than another, because their 'sin' is better, or lesser. That is not what is going to get you, or those you are attempting to help, find life after death if that is your true intention. This is not where I want this blog to go to, my apologies for rambling. Let me get back to my topic.

Does it take a Christian to make the world a better place? Absolutely not. While I know that some would argue that, I have seen many non-Christians show love. Amazing love -- love that makes me strive to be a better person. To be less judgmental, and more understanding. We are all individuals, and all capable of good and bad.

I have found a new faith family within the Christian theology, and it has been a great decision for me. I'm proud to be a Christian, and will tell you that I do not have all of the answers (if you want my opinions, I am happy to have a respectful discussion). Again, I am blessed to be surrounded by many non-judgmental people who want to love people the way that they feel they are being loved from Heaven above, regardless of social status, sexual orientation, or political affiliation.

What is my basic message? Stop feeding the hate. Love people like no one is watching even though everyone will be. Love people because they are different. Love people because that is what we are called to do. Love one another for no better reason than to say you used my new favorite four-letter word today.

I know I will make it my goal to stop preaching about peace, and start acting with love.

Rook out.

Friday, July 3, 2015

What is freedom to you?

Freedom
Let's hear it: What is freedom to you?

May we never forget the cost of freedom. May we always remember that everyone has been downtrodden at some point. Be the inspiration for someone else to do the right thing, to spread love, and to respect regardless of status. Use your pains to springboard joy into another's heart. Just because you have suffered does not mean that another should. Be the peace you want to see.


Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. (Matt. 7:12)




The Declaration of Independence: A Transcription

IN CONGRESS, July 4, 1776.

The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America,

When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.--That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.--Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.


He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.
He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.
He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.
He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.
He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.
He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.
He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.
He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.
He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:
For Quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:
For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:
For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:
For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:
For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:
For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences
For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:
For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:
For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.
He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.
He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.
He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.
He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.
He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.

Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our Brittish brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which, would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.

The 56 signatures on the Declaration appear in the positions indicated:

Column 1
Georgia:
Button Gwinnett
Lyman Hall
George Walton

Column 2
North Carolina:
William Hooper
Joseph Hewes
John Penn
South Carolina:
Edward Rutledge
Thomas Heyward, Jr.
Thomas Lynch, Jr.
Arthur Middleton

Column 3
Massachusetts:
John Hancock
Maryland:
Samuel Chase
William Paca
Thomas Stone
Charles Carroll of Carrollton
Virginia:
George Wythe
Richard Henry Lee
Thomas Jefferson
Benjamin Harrison
Thomas Nelson, Jr.
Francis Lightfoot Lee
Carter Braxton

Column 4
Pennsylvania:
Robert Morris
Benjamin Rush
Benjamin Franklin
John Morton
George Clymer
James Smith
George Taylor
James Wilson
George Ross
Delaware:
Caesar Rodney
George Read
Thomas McKean

Column 5
New York:
William Floyd
Philip Livingston
Francis Lewis
Lewis Morris
New Jersey:
Richard Stockton
John Witherspoon
Francis Hopkinson
John Hart
Abraham Clark

Column 6
New Hampshire:
Josiah Bartlett
William Whipple
Massachusetts:
Samuel Adams
John Adams
Robert Treat Paine
Elbridge Gerry
Rhode Island:
Stephen Hopkins
William Ellery
Connecticut:
Roger Sherman
Samuel Huntington
William Williams
Oliver Wolcott
New Hampshire:
Matthew Thornton


Monday, June 29, 2015

Endure like Bruce Lee - Inspiration

Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. Bruce Lee

Sometimes we all hope/wish/pray that today will be easy. Perhaps we are going about it all wrong...

Peace out peeps. Make today the best day you can, tomorrow may never come.