Tuesday, December 29, 2015

Adding Inches To My Pythons - A 2016 Goal

2015 draws to a close. Lots happened this year. I honestly don't remember what all of my resolutions were 360-some days ago. At this point, I'm not sure it matters. The past is just that.

So, what is this year going to bring? A new job. Perhaps a new residence. Maybe even a new truck. That said, here are a few goals I have:


  1. Be an awesome team player
  2. Provide insight others may not see that is worthy of everyone's time
  3. Willingness to learn from everyone's mistakes, including my own
  4. Settle for nothing less than I deserve due to impatience
  5. Accept that what I do get is indeed what was meant for me after plenty of hard work and perseverance
Also, other personal goals include:
  1. Learning the drum basics
  2. Getting involved in veteran homelessness, though I'm not sure how or where I would be best suited to help
  3. Having more get-togethers with those I hold near and dear with no shortage of laughter, love, and appreciation

Can I be honest? Daily routine has taken its toll on me. I need a change. Who is with me? I came to this realization when I was doing some work for a client of mine and came across two quotes searching for the right inspiration for their project:

You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough


In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take


So what does that mean? It means that if I'm not satisfied with my life as it is, it is no one else's responsibility other than my own to make it that one life to live. This is something that is a HUGE misnomer in our society. We are quick to point a finger at someone else for our own discomfort or lack of happiness. The fact is, if I'M not happy, I must go out and change MY situation. Not my neighbor, or my pops, or my high school buddy.

We all have something in our lives that we aren't pleased with. Perhaps a lack of education to get a dream job. Maybe it's taking the first step to getting a new job and getting out of a toxic company, which seems to be tougher than it should. It could even be confronting someone to find a way to improve communication, or even coming to terms with ones-self that you treat others disrespectfully and decide to seek professional help to improve your relationships. If it all seems overwhelming, find someone you can trust who will be honest with you, even if it is an unbiased 3rd party, and talk things through. 

Regardless of what it is, be thankful that it is 2016... you have 366 days to work it through. I know I'm looking forward to the extra day to add inches to my Pythons. 

In all seriousness though, pick a problem, figure out how to solve it, make the change, and repeat. Don't regret those chances you thought may have been initially too risky to take. Perhaps it is exactly what you need. Don't be afraid to fail. Don't think you have to fix everything all at once either. Make milestones of your most important items, set dates, and manage your progress. Forward movement, no matter how small, is better than sitting on your duff.

I truly wish you a happy and healthy 2016. Thanks for reading. All 3 of you =)

Thursday, December 3, 2015

An Unhappy Post

In the U.S., I have found the following facts regarding yearly deaths from four common sources that plague our news outlets. Feel free to click on the links I have provided:

Opioid deaths - tens of thousands
Alcohol deaths - tens of thousands
Suicide - tens of thousands
Gun deaths - tens of thousands

I'm not sure what to say. They all have fairly comparable numbers. I want to dive into this a bit. Talk it through.



It's an Epidemic

We all have been a part of someone's life that has ended far too quickly due to heroin or other opiates. Only they can choose to get help and stay clean.
Opiates: Illegal unless prescribed by a doctor. Prevention plans have been put in place to seek help and defeat drug addiction.

"Rethink your third drink"

How many of us have honestly driven home when we should not have? Honestly. If you read the stats on the MADD site, you may be astounded. Only YOU can choose to stay sober while operating a 1-2 ton vehicle. It is not someone else's responsibility to ensure you follow the rules. And like opiates, only you can choose to get help if you realize that this is a problem, and only you can choose to stay sober moving forward.
Alcohol: A strict limit has been set for legal driving while partaking of alcohol. Prevention plans have been put in place to seek help and defeat alcohol addiction.

"Permanent solution to a temporary problem"

I think many of us have been impacted by suicide too. Family. Friend. Ourselves. Life is tough. I'm not saying that it isn't. I've gone through divorce, splitting time with my child, living in my brother's basement, looking for a job. All at once. And that is nothing compared to those who may have been abused, seen war, have been drug and alcohol addicted, or any countless other things that impact our minds, bodies, and hearts. Only we can choose to overcome the thought, though. Only we can choose to get help, whether that be through counseling, prescriptions, meditation, or something else.
Suicide: No possible government regulation, but prevention programs have been set in place for those who seek them.

Cultural Control?

The debate of the year - gun control. Tougher laws to get guns. Removal of guns completely... I don't have the answers, and neither does anyone else, but Will it stop the violence? We cannot see the future, and yes, we can do our best to compare ourselves to other countries. Let's face it though: we are not them. We live in a society that is afraid of their own shadows. A place that cannot talk freely to one another for fear of racism, sexism, religious beliefs... IN A LAND THAT IS BASED ON FREEDOMS! A land where whites weren't supposed to be better than blacks, Christians better than Muslims, straight better than gay. A society that is so afraid to relinquish any further freedoms as, in many ways, we are already in a police state - traffic cameras, telephone, email, drones, satellites - that we many grit their teeth and hold on for dear life. Where everyone keeps asking for more, and nothing is being balanced. Where the popular vote doesn't matter anymore. Where politicians seem to regularly do what is best for them and their 'sponsors' rather than what is good for those who voted them in office to begin with. Where left cannot agree with right, and where the center is never heard.

Listen, I'm in the same boat as all of you parents: I don't want my son to die due to gun violence. To have to hide in a closet and be barricaded in a room among other defenseless children and staff. I cannot even begin to fathom what the parents of all of these events have to deal with every day. But do we take the guns away from the good people, the ones we probably don't hear enough about that defend their homes from killers and robbers, or their neighbors, or our children? The ones who go through all of the steps to be put under microscopes? And if we do, what is stopping the guns from entering our country like the opiates and other drugs from Asia and South America? As we have seen time and time again, the bad guys don't necessarily follow the laws. There isn't a single one of us right now that can state that either way is right.

What is it I'm trying to say? We are all human. We all have fear. We are passionate. We are all flawed. Maybe we do need tighter restrictions - screening for mental illness and depression as a basic example. This will not stop those who want to do harm to others though. Do we stop selling nails and ball bearings and pressure cookers to stop another Boston Marathon bombing from occurring elsewhere in the nation? Or fertilizer? Or stop flights from happening? Or close our borders? Or, as in a few of the topics above: end alcohol consumption (it didn't work in the past), and stop the drugs from entering the country (wait...).

You are right. Guns weren't made to start fires, or open a can of tuna, or even wipe your nose when you have a cold. Their soul purpose is to injure, maim, or kill. That fact cannot be denied, whether it be human or inhuman. The thing that scares me most is when the cards all get put on the table, and only the 'bad guys' are left toting firearms when they tell the law to suck a big one, what are we going to do? Hope law enforcement gets there in time? This isn't meant to be argumentative. These are real concerns.

This country is in a sad state of affairs. There are no right answers. People die every day,and the rate at which it is happening seem to be gaining speed. Almost like a butterfly effect. Walking hand-in hand are conjecture, hate, and fear. I can state my own beliefs, but that isn't going to fix the fact that we need to start finding solutions.

I just hope we find them soon.

Be safe everyone. Count your blessings. Share love. Find facts and don't believe the first thing you hear.

"Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success." --Henry Ford


Peace out.

Tuesday, November 24, 2015

What can I say, I'm thankful

For years on Facebook there would be this post going around having people state what they are thankful for. One item a day. I didn't see that this year, and well, Facebook doesn't control me so I'm going to do it on my own. Nana nana boo boo.



As we all know, being thankful should happen more than one day a year. That said, here is a list of both serious, and not-so-serious-but-still-awesome, things I'm thankful for.

  1. Good people - family, friends, strangers
  2. Bacon
  3. Fresh water - to drink and bathe in
  4. The gym (I have a feeling I'm going to be ouch-ing tomorrow... I'm still wiggly from my chest sets today)
  5. So many different genres of music to suit my mood
  6. Farm-to-table restaurants (including, but not limited to) Moxy and Pigtail
  7. Humbling moments to remind us we are humans when we often feel that we are gods
  8. Events in our lives that make us remember that we are loved when we feel unlovable
  9. Imagination and creativity
  10. Stories to share at bedtime with my son
  11. Cars - even though mine is on its way out
  12. Garages to park my car in when it snows
  13. The anticipation of picking out a Christmas tree to adorn our small apartment with
  14. Grocery store
  15. Opportunity to make a difference
  16. Faith
  17. Hope
  18. The ability to learn
  19. The ability to teach
  20. Sadness to make you appreciate joy that much more
  21. Technology that has improved everyday life
  22. Sunsets
  23. Bonfires and beverages
  24. S'mores with all the fixin's (Reese's PB Cups, Hershey's milk and dark is a great start)
  25. Nonsensical laughter of a 7 year old
  26. Shelter to stay out of the weather
  27. Razors to save my neck from that agonizing itch
  28. Family values, truth, honesty
  29. Past, present, and future defenders of our country
  30. Senses: The sound of the ocean, the glow of the moon, the smell of decaying leaves, the pant of a dog, the feel of fresh flannel sheets on a cold winter night.

There are so many more 'small things' that we overlook, and while we are told that we shouldn't sweat them, perhaps we shouldn't disregard them either. Feel free to add your own 'thankfuls' in the comments. I would love to see them!

Have a safe and wonderful holiday, everyone. 

Friday, November 13, 2015

Rookism Round 2 - INSTINCT

After the events of the day, I figure a bit of levity is in order. I often wish that I was a real superhero as depicted within the pages of the novels I am a character in to go out and relieve the world of terror and destruction.

"Don't piss on my leg and tell me it's raining, Knight."
"Hey, quit dry humpin' and get your shit together."
"Well, that's just shitabulous."
"Son of a bitch! Someone please tell me I did not just fucking die."
"You want to see how to make your enemy soil themselves?"
"You're not my type, big guy."
"You little death-cheating bastard."
"What, it's not enough to cheat at Go Fish? You have to cheat death, too?"
"Frankly, I don't give a rat's ass."
"I swear I can smell their shit-eating breath all the way up here."
"Back off, you nasty bitches!"
"What is this, a Martyr Gras parade?"
"He's.....he's fishing with Cha-Ka!"
"That's it, time for a beatdown!"
"Hell no! I just made all sorts of promises I couldn't keep, blah blah blah."
"What can I say? I'm a ladies' man."

I hope this revives some great memories and laughs from INSTINCT. The senseless acts of violence in Paris carried out by those despicable people will not be forgotten. Prayers go out to all peoples for peace and love to overtake this darkness.

Casting Pearls


"Do not give what is holy to the dogs; nor cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces."

Someone who I trust very much said this to me yesterday. It struck a chord. Whether you are a Christian or not, the quote from Matthew should resonate.

We all have something special to share with one another. Something more precious than material things. Ourselves. Our hearts. Our souls. Our passions. Our 'pearls'. We want to share them. Make life better for those around us, bring success to our jobs, and feel as though things today are better than they were yesterday because of the role we play daily in the moments of the world.

Unfortunately, not everyone is receptive to receive these pearls.


Remember though, they are ours to share with the world. Stop sharing what you have with those who would choose to devalue your offerings. Break the cycle. Walk away and find someone who finds them of value. 

To advance this point a step further: Just because one does not find value in something you do or did does not mean you lack worth. Nor does it matter if that number is 5, 15, or 55. Never confuse this fact. Your worth is a not a value that can be given a number from someone else. It's not based on Likes, Shares, or even attaboys. It is not something that I can give to you or tell you how to find. It must be found on your own when you are ready to find it. 

When you can be receptive to yourself

Moral of the story is that you must realize how important your pearls are before you cast them at your own hooves due to you not holding yourself with the high esteem that you should. While gifts, even if they are dirty, are wonderful, they look a whole lot better if you decide not to trample all over them yourself. Share yourself with those who value you. Move beyond the rest that don't. Never leave yourself behind.

Rook out.

Thursday, October 1, 2015

Let's Catch Up

Not since fricken August have I been here. Holy nutty! How time flies. It seems like I've been so busy, and I have. I have been working for a company on a contract basis that is based in Exeter rolling out a project management and accounting software combo, Workamajig. I have also been working on a lot of freelance stuff for businesses, both website and print graphics. It has been nothing short of bat-s crazy as of late! I am very appreciative though. It is nice to see the bank account actually go up for a change, haha. And the people I have been working with have been truly amazing making me feel a part of a team when as a contractor you normally are just an individual.

I wish I had some sort of other exciting news.

Oh, well, I created a new cover for author friend, Rick Jones


And tomorrow I get to try my hand at hard cider. While I have made plenty of beer in the last few years, this will be my first fruit-fermented beverage. 2 plain with 2 separate yeast types, and a third with hops.

Don't forget that tomorrow is the first day of your life all over again. If you are lucky enough to wake up, you can make a difference by: being a hero, surprising yourself, and making others smile. Don't take life for granted. Appreciate your privileges. Give your best.

Peace out.

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Masa Sushi & Hibachi Grill - Review

I've been going to Masa for quite a few years now. Never have I been disappointed. That's saying a lot. I've been there dozens of times at this point, and even bringing a few first dates there knowing full well that I could rely on the staff to make a great evening, and that only I would mess things up ;)

Tonight was no exception.

I took pictures, see below.

Seared tuna over cucumbers and soy
If you didn't know it was tuna, you would think it was a rare steak with the flavors placed over the top. This isn't the first time I've had this, and I hope it won't be the last.

King crab and Asparagus wrapped in rice, seaweed, and medium rare steak
So many flavors that paired well. The woodiness of the asparagus, mixed with the richness of King Crab, and the awesomeness of steak over top.

Salmon belly over rice
Absolutely decadent and rich, this salmon belly was a real treat

Seaweed wrapped salmon belly
A very humble looking piece of sushi, but don't be fooled! The flavor that popped into my mouth was amazing.

Salmon belly wrapped with seaweed and squid
I'm a big fan of squid, and this just made this already amazing feat of flavor that much better.

And I cannot believe it, but I didn't get the photo of the last dish that was handed to me over the sushi bar. He even came around to explain it to me. It was done in two pieces, one side was Super White Tuna (which come to find out isn't tuna at all!) over rice with a sour lemon, garlic, and olive oil flavor enhancing sauce of deliciousness, the other was partially seared, thin sliced clam. You have no idea how amazing that was.

As you can see, much of this is not something you typically see hit your everyday sushi plate. These aren't the California rolls and Philladelphia rolls of the American sushi scene. These are authentic pieces of craftsmanship that were made for me tonight, and I got to hear some amazing stories and make a great connection with the big man in charge at Masa. It was a humbling experience to taste his favorite flavors, and his favorite things to create, and I will not soon forget it.

I cannot thank Jimmy, Amber, and the rest of the Masa crew enough for an amazing time tonight. They are always attentive, friendly, and all of this is why I go from my home to 20+ minutes away to get my sushi. I urge you to make the trek to 1707 South Willow St. in Manchester, NH.

And hey, don't forget to invite me! Suckas. Peace out!

Don't Do It For Chris Farley...

Some people had Belusi. Others had Williams. Perhaps Laurel and Hardy. I had Chris Farley.

I just got finished watching I Am Chris Farley on Spike. I forgot how much I loved watching him. Matt Foley, Tommy Callahan, Gap Girls. I very much connected with him in high school. Often my fellow schoolmates would have me impersonate him (with little to no cue, mind you) and I thoroughly enjoyed it. 

Little did I realize his lack of self esteem, and while I knew he battled addiction it was quite painful to watch being reflected through the eyes of his friends and family for this special. 

"John Hancock... it's Herbie Hancock."

Excuse the Language - WTF Drugs?!


This post, while not being about alcohol will quickly get into some adult language, so earmuffs... or blinders, kiddies. We all know that addiction is just a fact of life, right? Drug use isn't slowing down, and in fact new nasty types of these lovely pieces of S are hitting the street hard. 

We see it in our mainstream media, whether that be TV, movies, or music. We can't get away from it, and we can't just push it aside any longer!

So what do we do differently? What are we doing wrong as a nation to continue seeing these things effect the lives of our friends, families, and neighbors? Is it because one just wants to belong to something bigger than what they feel like? Or want to cover pain? Or maybe because they are just plain bored?

Well, I'm sorry, but any excuse you can come up with is straight up BS. 

"...Livin' in a van, down by the river!"

Get Help


Since graduation, I think I know of about a half dozen deaths due to drugs or alcohol from the class of 1998. 

I'm sure there have been more that I missed. 

We all have something we want to escape from in life. I know I do. But there is no escape. 

It starts out in the shady part of the room, when you first lay eyes on whatever it may be. This is when it would be best to get help. Often, people don't.

Funny things happen and it gets kicked around, bounces off a wall or two, and makes it closer to the center of the room. You step over it, perhaps overlay a rug. Have you ever tried to vacuum a rug that isn't flat? As you vacuum, not only do you ruin the rug in that one spot that is raised, but you miss the dirt on either side never truly doing what you intended to do. 

Refresh.

As the monster gets bigger, so does the weight on our hearts and minds. There are lots of ways to "forget" the weight we bear. Drugs, alcohol, and self-inflicted pain to name a few. It's funny though, the more we do to forget the pain, the more it tends to return like a screeching siren. Even when you thought you figured it out. Even when you thought you fixed it.

That seems to be what happened to Chris. That seems to be what happens to many. 

Stop. Stop the cycle. Confront the beast.

Head on.

No mercy.

Get help. Seek a professional and talk through the problems before you dig yourself an early grave! Feel like it's too late? Are you reading this? Then it's not. Get help now. You were given the opportunity to make a difference today. Start by making it in your own life.

You are worth it


If you have gotten this far, don't stop. You have something to live for. Take a look in the mirror, or perhaps the reflection you see in your monitor. Look yourself in the eye! Don't be embarrassed. Don't be ashamed. We all have self worth. Believe it. Take it from me, I've had to learn it the hard way. 

Know that you have gifts to share. Know that you have joy to spread. Know that you are loved.

Know that it starts from within. 

Don't do it for me. Don't do it for your kids. Not your parents or your neighbors. Hell, don't do it for Chris Farley.

Do it for you.



The Clown's Prayer

As I stumble through this life,
help me to create more laughter than tears, 
dispense more cheer than gloom, 
spread more cheer than despair. 

Never let me become so indifferent, 
that I will fail to see the wonders in the eyes of a child, 
or the twinkle in the eyes of the aged. 

Never let me forget that my total effort is to cheer people, 
make them happy, and forget momentarily, 
all the unpleasantness in their lives. 

And in my final moment, 
may I hear You whisper: 
"When you made My people smile, 
you made Me smile."

Monday, July 27, 2015

Moxy - Portsmouth - Review

Any of you who know me know that I have told you time and time again what Moxy is all about. It is my most favorite place to go to eat. Period. I've been many places. That speaks volumes.

The atmosphere is great. Decent music, plaid checkered button ups on the staff, and the kitchen is open for all to see as you walk by. The bar is just to the left when you walk in, and while they have a decent selection, I have some suggestions for whiskey offerings =). Water is brought to the table in tall glass bottles, and tealights on the tables. The staff is knowledgeable, nice, and help to round out the experience. The presentation is so great too! It comes out either on slate or wood boards.

This place is a foodies dream. Don't be turned off by that though if you aren't. You will absolutely enjoy every last bite. I promise.

The menu changes fairly regularly, but there are staples. This time around, I had the following:

Fresno Chili Cornbread with Maple Butter - a slight kick, and the butter is luxurious with enough salt and sweet to make it worth every scrape.
Crispy Rhode Island Calamari - again, great balance of salt on the breading of the calamari, with a nice sweet note of the relish underneath the abundant pile.
Beer Battered NH Shark Kabobs - imagine haddock and swordfish had a baby... a shaddock. Great flavor of a whitefish with a light oil note.
Beef Short Rib Marmalade - Haha. Best savory meal there as far as I'm concerned. Atop a crostini is a pile of shredded beef that is heaven in the mouth, complimented with a few chunks of blue cheese and homemade pickled onions. Holy deuce.
Bacon and Swiss Chard Stuffed Sweet Peppers - While this was good, I was expecting something a touch different. There was less swiss chard than I thought there would be, and it had a bread stuffing with some bacon mixed in. It was good, the horseradish cream was light but tasty.
Flying Goat Farm Camembert - This was incredible. A blueberry and honey compote smeared on the board, small wedges of cheese mixed with asparagus ends (scapes) and fennel.
Whoopie Pie Sliders - I'm fairly certain that they had to sell their souls to gain this recipe. THE BEST thing I think I have ever had. They appear small, but what you are given is way more than enough due to the richness of the cake, frosting, and chocolate sauce.

Wow. I had a lot this time. I left uncomfortably full. It was juice worth the squeeze =).

I would recommend each and every thing that I had this time. It was the best batch of calamari and short ribs to-date. I've been there a dozen times. And the whoopie pies, you can never go wrong with the whoopie pies! I think I could live off of these two things for the rest of my life and be happy.

Getting back to the whiskey, I did try one there, Beat 3. It was really good. If you are into honey back notes, this is worth a try.

Bring your 'other' there. They will thank you for it later.

Then you will thank me.

Life will be good.

Peace out, suckas!

Thursday, July 23, 2015

Today Is A Good Day

I have to agree with Ice Cube, today is a good day: Thanked God. No barking dog... But we did differ a bit. I had some bacon.


So, what's good about it? I've felt very accomplished today. Partnering up with a friend doing some graphics for her business, meeting up with some old coworkers for lunch, then teaching a class of adults about LinkedIn and how beneficial it can be for you and your career search. The highlight of it all: I was told that I should be a motivational speaker and that I truly helped at least a few of them. More so, someone wants to hire me to show them how to use LinkedIn and other 'current tools' like Google Drive, Calendar, and the like.

I believe that we are not living life as we should. We are a whole lot of talk and so often we lack action. Often people say, 'what are MY needs? Me, ME. ME!' but miss out on the fact that if everyone focused on everyone else's needs, how much more could be accomplished! Beyond that, imagine the speed at which YOUR needs could get fulfilled if everyone else cared as much about you as you cared about others. Are 10 hands working toward 1 goal not better than 1 focusing on themselves?

That said, I throw down the gauntlet:

Do you want to see the homeless taken care of? Go to your local shelter and donate your time to help feed them, or be a listening ear (I'm sure the Nashua Soup Kitchen and Shelter would be happy to see you).

Do you want to see people get jobs? Go to your local library and offer your time to teach classes on how to find a job, use the internet, or promote job fairs.

Think the news is a bunch of garbage? Start getting your own facts and create a blog, podcast, or vlog.

I could go on, but I think you get the point. If there is only one thing that you take away tonight, it is that YOU really can make a difference if that is what you want. I heard it. I felt it. I saw it. Life has taught me some tough lessons the past few years, and a good one being that I needed to stop playing the victim. More often than not, life isn't that fricken bad. Quit the complaining and start serving up actionable solutions that YOU take the lead on, or get them to people who can. Stop the noise that does not make things clearer, nor solves any problem.

Believe me when I say to you that you want to take on this challenge. You might actually start feeling good about this world when you see all the good your heart can provide to those around you. Don't get discouraged. Stay the course. Be a great leader that people want to follow.

Let your smile, and attitude, change the world.

Peace out.

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Rhythm Fun - 9/12/2015

Rhythm Fun - NH Drum Festival - September 12th 2015

I'm pretty vocal when it comes to my passions, one of my biggest passions being New Hampshire Drum Festival. You'll be seeing posts from time to time about NHDF events, so be ready to show up! Each one is a great time.

Our next event is on September 12, 2015 at the Shaskeen Pub in Manchester, NH. It is an all ages show, and is early enough to not get trapped in the bar scene with your kids, but can be a great start to the night if you decide to come without them.

What is Rhythm Fun, you ask? Great question! A drummer and a bassist team up to compete against other teams. The competition is stiff, and the music is great. I am always sad to see this event finish by night's end... but I say that about all of our events.


We have some great sponsors (please see the flier above!), along with some awesome giveaways. Love music? Feel free to donate and put money back into the NHDF coffers for bigger and better events.

Let us know you're coming: Facebook Event

Sayonara.

Monday, July 13, 2015

My New Favorite Four-Letter Word

I have a little rant. Bear with me. While this is geared towards Christians, you do not have to be to follow along.

Growing up, I was raised Catholic. It was a great little church in a quaint town in NH, and I was a part of many pieces of the place. I was an altar server from basically the day after my First Communion, up until my family moved away when I was 20. I helped put on spaghetti dinners to raise money for non-profits. I made treats to be eaten at the weekly coffee hour in the basement. I was treated with respect and love. Unconditionally.

I then grew up. I had choices to make, but I never forgot the priest that I had spent so many years with. He was a gentle giant and one of the most amazing people I had ever known. He was as much an influence in my life as my parents were for me to grow up to be a good man who loved all, because that is how Christ told us to live.

Sounds like a pretty decent story so far. Well, here it comes:


Don't cast stones.

We have not been commanded to be judge and jury when it comes to sin. We are here to support people in their greatest time of need, and love them the best way we know how while working through our own sin through introspective reflection to make the world a better place one you at a time.

We all sin. We all fall short. I know I do, and probably every few minutes at that. We must end the belief, though, that any one person reading this blog (or not) is going to Heaven, or is leading a better life than another, because their 'sin' is better, or lesser. That is not what is going to get you, or those you are attempting to help, find life after death if that is your true intention. This is not where I want this blog to go to, my apologies for rambling. Let me get back to my topic.

Does it take a Christian to make the world a better place? Absolutely not. While I know that some would argue that, I have seen many non-Christians show love. Amazing love -- love that makes me strive to be a better person. To be less judgmental, and more understanding. We are all individuals, and all capable of good and bad.

I have found a new faith family within the Christian theology, and it has been a great decision for me. I'm proud to be a Christian, and will tell you that I do not have all of the answers (if you want my opinions, I am happy to have a respectful discussion). Again, I am blessed to be surrounded by many non-judgmental people who want to love people the way that they feel they are being loved from Heaven above, regardless of social status, sexual orientation, or political affiliation.

What is my basic message? Stop feeding the hate. Love people like no one is watching even though everyone will be. Love people because they are different. Love people because that is what we are called to do. Love one another for no better reason than to say you used my new favorite four-letter word today.

I know I will make it my goal to stop preaching about peace, and start acting with love.

Rook out.

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Rookism, Round 1 - PULSE

For those of you who don't know, I'm a main character in a book series by the great Jeremy Robinson. I've known Jeremy the better part of 20 years, and through that time he and I have built a friendship few have. It's pretty awesome. But hey, I'm not here to talk about the mushy crap, let's get on to the good stuff.

Callsign: Rook, a novel by Jeremy Robinson and Edward G. Talbot

Some of you have had the opportunity to meet me. A few may even consider my personality 'larger than life' (yes, I have been told that to my face. I thanked them.). He was looking for a character, and I guess I fit the bill! I don't even think I knew about it before he started writing. As much as I like to play it up, I'm still in disbelief. Surreal even.

Well, Jeremy knows me pretty well from all the time we have spent together, and has been able to get me down to a science. I was lucky enough to work with him while he was writing the first novel that was released in the series, PULSE, and he would just turn around (we worked in the same room together) and say, "Hey, 'situation-x' is going on, what statement would you make?" I would respond with something completely off the cuff, and it would get put in the book. Sure, some of it got edited out or tweaked, but it was such an amazing process.

Since starting this blog, I have been considering a section of 'Rookisms', the one-liners stated by my character. Some of these may not be for everyone, so if you are offended by profanity you may want to just hit Back. Otherwise, read on, Suckas! And hey, thanks to fans Abby and Kelly for getting this list together of their favorites. Good peeps, you are. I'm glad we got to meet at RobinsonFest 2015!

Pulse, a novel by Jeremy Robinson


PULSE by Jeremy Robinson
  1. "Talk about maximum shrinkage-it's so cold out here I might have to change my name to Susan."
  2. "I have to do everything I s'pose. Bend over, ladies, here it comes."
  3. "You horny rabbit. I didn't know you wanted kids."
  4. "When he stops acting like a prick we'll be golden."
  5. "I'm not a big fan of needles or haystacks. Put them together and I'm bound to get pissed."
  6. "Ahh, save it for when your future wife sees your little pecker."
Want more context, or feel the need to read more Rookisms? Buy the book, the link is above. 

INSTINCT is next. Keep your eyes open for that within the next few weeks.

Friday, July 3, 2015

What is freedom to you?

Freedom
Let's hear it: What is freedom to you?

May we never forget the cost of freedom. May we always remember that everyone has been downtrodden at some point. Be the inspiration for someone else to do the right thing, to spread love, and to respect regardless of status. Use your pains to springboard joy into another's heart. Just because you have suffered does not mean that another should. Be the peace you want to see.


Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. (Matt. 7:12)




The Declaration of Independence: A Transcription

IN CONGRESS, July 4, 1776.

The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America,

When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.--That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.--Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.


He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.
He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.
He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.
He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.
He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.
He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.
He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.
He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.
He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:
For Quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:
For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:
For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:
For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:
For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:
For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences
For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:
For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:
For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.
He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.
He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.
He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.
He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.
He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.

Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our Brittish brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which, would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.

The 56 signatures on the Declaration appear in the positions indicated:

Column 1
Georgia:
Button Gwinnett
Lyman Hall
George Walton

Column 2
North Carolina:
William Hooper
Joseph Hewes
John Penn
South Carolina:
Edward Rutledge
Thomas Heyward, Jr.
Thomas Lynch, Jr.
Arthur Middleton

Column 3
Massachusetts:
John Hancock
Maryland:
Samuel Chase
William Paca
Thomas Stone
Charles Carroll of Carrollton
Virginia:
George Wythe
Richard Henry Lee
Thomas Jefferson
Benjamin Harrison
Thomas Nelson, Jr.
Francis Lightfoot Lee
Carter Braxton

Column 4
Pennsylvania:
Robert Morris
Benjamin Rush
Benjamin Franklin
John Morton
George Clymer
James Smith
George Taylor
James Wilson
George Ross
Delaware:
Caesar Rodney
George Read
Thomas McKean

Column 5
New York:
William Floyd
Philip Livingston
Francis Lewis
Lewis Morris
New Jersey:
Richard Stockton
John Witherspoon
Francis Hopkinson
John Hart
Abraham Clark

Column 6
New Hampshire:
Josiah Bartlett
William Whipple
Massachusetts:
Samuel Adams
John Adams
Robert Treat Paine
Elbridge Gerry
Rhode Island:
Stephen Hopkins
William Ellery
Connecticut:
Roger Sherman
Samuel Huntington
William Williams
Oliver Wolcott
New Hampshire:
Matthew Thornton


Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Vermont Smoke and Cure Uncured Bacon - Review

Bacon. Not much more needs to be said. There is very little that cannot be made better without bacon (like beer, oddly enough, but perhaps that is another post).

Vermont Smoke and Cure Uncured Bacon


Today I tried the Vermont Smoke and Cure Bacon. This was the best bacon I have had to date. It tastes real. Nothing remotely artificial tasting about this, and that impresses me. Since realizing how bad nitrates and nitrites are, I have gone as far away from them as possible. In turn, I have been trying out every type of natural bacon I can find at my local markets without the unnecessary preservatives. I've had some decent ones, but this for sure takes the cake.

I was expecting a much sweeter flavor seeing that it was maple brined, but it really is very subtle. On the back you get notes of corn and a super balanced smoke flavor (I wouldn't be sad if there were a touch more smoke though). The meat to fat ratio is amazing too. You can tell that these weren't pigs raised to just get fat, but to be premium cuts of deliciousness.

While it is more pricy than my normal bacon, I think I will get it again when the need is there for some top-notch, porky, awesomeness. Thanks to the folks from Hinesburg, VT for a great product.

Monday, June 29, 2015

Endure like Bruce Lee - Inspiration

Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. Bruce Lee

Sometimes we all hope/wish/pray that today will be easy. Perhaps we are going about it all wrong...

Peace out peeps. Make today the best day you can, tomorrow may never come.

Saturday, June 27, 2015

Blackberry Pear Izze Sparkling Water Beverage - Review

I've been a fan of fizzy drinks for, well, my whole life. I enjoy the bubbles dancing on my tongue.

Today's drink of choice is the Izze Sparkling Water Beverage, flavored with blackberry pear. I'll be doing the Mandarin Lime at a later date... perhaps tomorrow?

Izze Sparkling Water Beverage


Every selection I've had from the brand has been right up there with some of my favorite fizzy drinks (especially the clementine soda), so I was really looking forward to this. Right on the bottle it states that it is organic, and turning to the back the ingredients are only 4 simple things - fizzy water, flavor, sweetener, and acid. No artificial bunk makes Stanley a happy boy. 

I've had some sparkling water beverages with sweetener that were much sweeter than this, and much more 'rich'. This is pleasantly refreshing and light, and while it was balanced between the sweet and sour, I wouldn't mind a bit more flavor, and perhaps a touch-bit more sweetener. The blackberry is certainly the dominant flavor over the pear.

Would I get it again? Sure, it is decent. Being honest, though, I think that I like their soda-juice concoctions more. Continuing with the honesty, the sweetness level isn't really all that monumental and there are other sweetener-free sparkling water beverages that execute as well at a fraction of the cost.

Pros: Refreshing and light, not full of artificial ingredients. Low calorie drink with sugar.

Cons: Perhaps a bit too light, needs a bit more flavor/sweetener to set it apart from the standard sweetener-free bubbly water.

NOTE: I find it odd that their website does not have this showcased anywhere. Perhaps I, and Google, missed it? While I realize this is new, a good marketing plan includes updates to your website as the product gets released if not just previous to its release - chop chop, Izze!

See ya, suckas.

Friday, June 26, 2015

Portland Pie Company - Nashua - Review

I'm full. Like, topped off. A friend suggested we go to Portland Pie Co., and so it is where we went, kids and all. Normally they go to the Manchester location, but today we went to Nashua. It was a great time. The place was clean and quiet (before we showed up). Our waiter was a nice dude and was knowledgeable providing excellent feedback when requested. Life is good. That is all.

...

No, just kidding. I'm going to tell you what I got, cause that's how I roll.
Portland Pie Company - Pizzeria and Pub
App:
We started off with the Baked Potato Fries. While I expected something a touch different, more like potato wedges, they were really good. A decent amount of fries smothered in cheese, bacon, and chives. On the side, sour cream and ketchup. Kids and adults smiled.

Dinner:
The dude got Mac and Cheese (Kraft is my guess) and chips. Nothing monumental, but he enjoyed it and I am happy with that.
I got heaven on a heavenly crust (beer). It was 1/2 Harbormaster (BBQ chicken, bacon, caramelized onion) and 1/2 Matinicus (prosciutto, cream cheese, pepperoncini). The bacon was great, and no shortage, and the entire dynamic of the Matinicus was amazing.

Dessert:
No surprise, my son wanted dessert, so we all shared a brownie sundae. That for sure could feed 2 adults, who had nothing else. It was satisfying fo' sho'. It was about 5" or 6" square, big scoop of ice cream, and some whipped cream and hot fudge drizzle.

Drinks:
Their drink menu isn't online, but I had the hard iced tea (similar to Long Island), and the margarita. Both very tasty! Not overly sweet, and actually pleasantly tart. I'd be more than happy to partake of another few glasses of each.

Overall, I was happy I went and would go back again in a heartbeat. Gluten-free options, too (which I should have had, but wanted the Full Monty tonight - PPCo virgins must partake of the whole experience). If you haven't gone and like pizza, make it happen. They have other offerings beside pizza and they all sounded appetizing, so even if you do not do pizza, there seems to be something for all.

Sayonara!

Thursday, June 25, 2015

Oak Aged Mocha Stout - Review

Have you ever been stumbling around, only to find yourself tripping over a real gem? Well, I just did.

Tonight.

In my fridge.

I forgot that I bought this. It kept getting moved further and further back in my fridge (and I have a small fridge, how it got lost is a mystery). Today, I guess, was the day I was supposed to celebrate life with this delightful capturing of tasty malts, smooth coffee, and delectable chocolate. Welcome Peak Organic's Oak Aged Mocha Stout to your table, everyone.

Peak Organic Oak Aged Mocha Stout

I don't know about you but dark beers do it for me (unlike Prince Valium). The complex and arousing notes fill my tongue and nose with joy and in no way put my taste buds to sleep

After you open the bottle and take a nice deep nose-worth, you get a whiff of coffee and the undertones of malt. Dark chocolate hits you at the end. Taking a sip gives a smooth mouth feel, at first, with a strong, yet not overpowering, low-acid coffee flavor. You then get the vanilla (from the oak) followed by dark chocolate (comparable in flavor to the Ghiradelli 60% Cacao bittersweet chips) in a just-sweet-enough offering. Once it passes over your tongue completely, the oak kicks back in and you get the signature 'tannin mouthfeel' as you do in red wines. Very little bitter. The top notes (coffee and chocolate) linger for a few moments...

Just long enough for your hand to pick that delivery vessel back up again and get it to your mouth for another reminder that you made the right beverage choice tonight.

Perhaps I was a scoche over-dramatic. What can I say, I felt like using my creative writing skills I learned in high school. I promise you though that it is every bit as good as I made it sound. This is a great treat for you dark beer lovers, coffee drinkers, and purveyors of fine chocolate, and hope you consider picking up a bottle the next time it becomes available in your neck of the woods.

Headfirst PMP - What I'm Reading

I don't have a lot of time to read, to be honest. I work a lot, run a freelance graphic design gig, go to the gym, and most importantly have family obligations with a super 6yo kid.

Well, that whole "I work a lot" statement changed a short while ago when I got laid off my full-time job due to "restructuring".

My goal is to get back into project management, and here is the thing: I believe I am good at it. The recommendations I received on LinkedIn from the clients I worked with verify my feeling. So, I didn't waste time. I got back out there and started looking for a new PM job where I could use my hard and soft skills to bring another business success, enthusiasm, and leadership.

Easier said than done. Many employers now-a-days require (or strongly recommend) that project managers have PMP (Project Management Professional) Certification. Instead of sulking, or trying to find a lower end job, I decided to go get the cert to advance my career and knowledge base.

Small problem though... I don't have enough hours in project management to even take the test! Son of a motherless goat!

Headfirst PMP TextbookA lack of hours can't stop this man-in-motion. I enrolled in the class regardless of my shortcoming (thanks Carl and the John Mason Institute) and am now 5 classes in, with another 4 to go. I tell you though, this is as tough a course as I've had since my science courses back in college. Lots of memorization of functions and processes and PMI terminology (oh my!). If you are devoted to the craft, I suggest that you find a way to make it happen. Don't come lacking in vigor and vim, though, you will need it to survive.

So, onto the textbook, or this month's (and probably next month's) reading material. It is 850 pages of hunka-hunka-burnin'-love. I find it fairly easy to follow along while the instructor does his thing. Not a bad choice. From what I understand, at the end of the course I will be getting another piece of 'literature' ... the PMBOK. The so-called Project Mangement Bible according to PMI. Perhaps I'll let you know what I think of it after I take the test. If I pass. And I'm still conscious.

All kidding aside, I look forward to finishing up this class. While it has absorbed a ton of my time, I truly feel as though it will end up being juice worth the squeeze (right Bryan?). I'm getting a ton of knowledge, and even if I do not take the test right away I have gained so much more than I would have otherwise. Regardless of where or what my next career opportunity is, there is no doubt that I'll be using everything I am learning. Win-win.

Moral of the story: Don't let your goals be stifled by speed bumps. Make it happen, peeps.

Rook out.

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Angry Orchard Hop'n Mad Apple - Review

Since realizing that I should lay off the gluten, I have been trying to find options that are still tasty. I have had a handful of gluten-free beers, but let's be honest: No-to-the-bueno. So, that leads me to the hard cider side of life when looking for a beer-alternative.

This post is going to be all about Angry Orchard's offer, Hop'n Mad Apple.

Angry Orchard Hop'n Mad Apple Hard Cider


Seeing the word mad made me hopeful that I could Hulk out and smash something, but this calms the inner beast. A tart hit like a granny smith, a little sweet like white grape juice, and a bit of bitter due to the hops. I think the only thing that would add to this would be an oaking, adding some vanilla tones. Perhaps that could be a warming fall variety of the brew? I for sure believe that this should be a long-term offering, with or without the vanilla. This will have a permanent spot in my fridge as long as it is made.

Pros: Decent flavor. Smooth, yet sharp, tongue tantalizing refreshment

Cons: Only being ultra-critical can I state that I would like to get some vanilla undertones.


Is there something I should try? Have a favorite cider? Let me know!

Keep on smashin', smashers.

Not Your Father's Root Beer - Review

I had high hopes for this alcoholic root beer. I mean, root beer, at 6%. Bottoms up! ...Right?

Well, kind of.
Not Your Father's Root Beer Ale With The Taste of Spices

The root beer flavor that it has is decent. It's spicy and has pizzazz (can I still use that word?), but like the old-school root beer barrel candies it is way too sweet. You even get that artificial flavor aftertaste after it goes down. While that is great for nostalgia, my adult palate wants more. Think Virgil's Root Beer.

My input: make it half as sweet and it would be phenomenal! Due to its sweetness, the drink-ability factor goes down. After two bottles, my taste buds get sick of it and I start to get a twitch from the sugar rush. Not that having one is a bad thing, but hey, sometimes you want more. Am I right?

Pros: The vanilla flavor is good, and almost has a Madagascar vanilla bourbon hit. Spicy notes add depth.

Cons: Too sweet - increase the alcohol content (beefier yeast) or drop the sugar. Decreased drink-ability due to it being too sweet for my taste.

Note: After going to Small Town Brewery's website, I see that they showcase a 10% AND 19.5% beverage in the same vein (ale with spices). I would love to get my hands on that and compare the three. I would like to determine if the increased ABV knocks the sweetness down. The draft options sound tasty as well: chocolate porter and apple pie beer. If you make it out to Chicago, or live there now and want to give input, I'd love to hear it.

Peace out, suckas!